First let me explain why I've written this (rather long page). I've not been shy about how I came to work in this field, and my philosophy behind the service I provide. Recently, though, a few clients have suggested that I put this information on my site, as they feel it gives an insight into the "extraordinary woman" I am, goes a long way to explaining why I have so many positive reviews, and why I do things the way I do. So, I apologise in advance for the length, but just like my service (lol) good things take time, great things take longer.
My massage journey
I gained Diplomas and Certificates in various forms of Massage and Energetic Healing more than 10 years ago, and began straight massaging, offering massages and energetic healing, at various clinics on Sydney's lower north shore. I quickly noticed that around 90% of the men that came in had only done so because their partners had booked them in, telling them they needed to relax and I was the best masseuse they had found. Male clients seemed also to be used to harder styles of massage, such as remedial, Chinese or Thai massage, which they readily agreed was often quite painful so they weren't able to relax, and they often felt worse afterwards, saying their muscles remained stiff and sore, and they often had headaches afterwards.
Because I have a back injury myself, and found that harder massages made me feel worse, I could relate to their experiences. I quickly realised that the phrase "no pain, no gain", and going harder to try and release knots didn't work, but teasing knots out using different, lighter moves was more effective. My clients reported a decrease in stiffness, pain and side effects, and an increase in mobility and relaxation.
My introduction to erot*c massage
I started working part-time as a receptionist in a massage p@rlour, not realising the majority of masseuses couldn't massage. So it was a surprise to me when a client came out of a booking complaining that the 'massage was terrible and the h@nd job was the worst he'd ever had'. When questioned, the masseuse said "guys usually don't come to places like this for a massage anyway" and the other ladies agreed. I asked about the 'h@ppy end*ng' part of the service, and the ladies said things like "I leave it to the end and then get it over with"; "I wait until the session's almost finished so he'll probably extend"; "I just jerk and clean...5 minutes max". To be honest, I was a little horrified that this was the attitude taken by the women I worked with.
I offered to teach them some basic massage techniques, which a few agreed to, along with some tips regarding the slide (avoid the spine, use arms to stretch out the muscles before using curves to their best advantage) but had no tips regarding a h@nd job since I hadn't done one in a professional capacity. I did however, ask them to think about the fact that (as women) we tended to pamper ourselves all the time, and men usually don't - that this was their one avenue to relax and be pampered so perhaps a little more TLC could be applied when it came time to ending the session. After all, I reasoned, if they wanted quick, they'd do it themselves. And we had a lot more access than them since we could reach more, come at it from a different angle etc.
Anyway, the client returned a few weeks later and went through with a different masseuse, one I had given some tips to. He complimented her technique, and she told him I had given some ladies training and asked them to think about their work a little differently. On his way out, he approached me and thanked me for teaching some skills, and asked if I would consider 'jumping the fence', saying he would love to try out 'the real deal'. I hadn't thought about it before (since the ladies were a lot thinner and I considered them a lot more attractive) but approached the owner. She agreed I could try it on a trial basis to see if it suited me and, if it didn't, I was welcome to return as a receptionist.
And so my journey into the world of erot*c massage began. And I haven't looked back, refining my techniques and practices until I felt happy with the experiences I offer. Although, like with anything, perfection is a consistent goal.
My philosophy
I honestly feel honoured by what I do. I enjoy bringing relaxation to my clients, allowing their mind to 'chill out', and enjoy the release I am able to give them during our sessions together. I appreciate new clients, as I believe it takes quite a bit of courage to see someone new (you never know if the reviews are made up for example), and I appreciate clients who return - whether regularly or three years later as, for me, it shows they recall our session with fondness.
To my mind, women (in general) make time for facials, body scrubs, manicures, pedicures, and softer massages than men. We have head massages and hair treatments when we visit our hairdresser and, although some of these things are painful (let's face it, beauty is pain), generally speaking, these treatments allow our minds to drift to a quiet place, allow our bodies to relax and allow our spirit to re-centre.
What I aim to do, within the sessions I provide, is give men the space to do the same. To put themselves in my hands and to trust I know what I am doing, so their minds can drift off while I relax their tense muscles, relieving muscle spasms and releasing knots, with a few teasing touches here and there to stimulate other areas of their brain and body. My slide is designed to release locked areas, while being stimulating and pleasurable, with 't@ckle tickle' adding to the experience. My sessions are split evenly, with equal time being spent on the back and on the front. As I've established above, if you wanted quick, you'd do it yourself.
So, after the slide, I invite clients to turn over (I've only had one ever say no - he asked me to do a bit more of a head massage as it felt "so damned good" and sit on the table facing them, their legs over mine so as not to strain their backs. This position (rather than standing to the side) allows me to use my fingers, hands, wrists and lower arms to great effect (as you'll see upon reading the reviews) and to easily see when you're getting to the point of no return, so I can use a different stroke, different pace, different movement etc to draw out your rele@se as long as possible.
Yes, you're able to sit up and touch (from shoulders down, bre@sts and bu++...but not between the legs unless you've chosen that option), should you want to but remember...this is all about you. Your relaxation and release. After all it's not often you get to just lie there and enjoy right?
*Although much of this philosophy is focussed on men, I do honour women in this way also. It is rare for females to explore their sensu@lity and sexu@lity in this format, but it does happen and I value my female clients as much as I do my male clients, endeavouring to ensure their experience is also one of relaxation, healing and pleasure. While the majority of my clientele are men, I do appreciate women (and couples) who choose to visit me. I am (understandably) cautious...in the event it is a male client's partner who has found a curious text or my number (**please ensure texts, calls and GPS locations are deleted by the way**) however I've become quite discerning and am quickly able to recognise a legitimate client or booking request.
I like my clients to feel comfortable from the moment they enter my space, to the time they leave, so everything is prepared and designed with this in mind. From the refreshments and menu provided, to the hot shower and range of products available for you to use, the use of warmed oil that nourishes your skin rather than staying on the surface, the hot towels to remove the oil before turning over, the music that is chosen so my hands can 'dance' along your body in time to the music, the warm towels for you to use before and after our session, the candles to warm the room and provide a greater sense of ambiance...all this is designed with your relaxation in mind. If I feel you need quiet, I'll refrain from conversing. But I'll happily talk about pretty much anything (as a few clients have discovered, I have a passion for changing the world and movies) and am always interested in knowing more about my clients; I enjoy that connection.
So now you know...
Now you know what makes me tick, and why I've elected to do this type of massage, and offer the service I do. It's not because I can't do anything else (in fact, I can do a great many things), but that I choose to bring relaxation, healing and pleasure to my clients. It's why I take my job so seriously, provide a website that aims to provide existing and future clients with all the information they need to make an informed choice, treat clients with respect and discretion, have achieved a certain amount of respect for the service I provide, and expect both discretion and respect from clients. My professionalism means I am discreet, and that I appreciate honest reviews about my service (I only ask you keep any reviews professional, rather than a detailed script of what happened). My booking and confirmation process have been honed over the years, until I've now got a system that works for me, and (I would hope) for my clients. Yes, it means you are often out of luck trying to get a last minute appointment, but as the saying goes "if you fail to plan, you plan to fail". My security system is one that I've developed and that hasn't let me down yet. My cancellation system has also been perfected (out of necessity) over the years.
My phone is on do-not-disturb during sessions; I will not answer calls, texts or emails during our time together. You're paying me for my time - it is the height of rudeness (to me) to disturb your relaxation, and I can't believe other service providers do this! I ask that you do the same since phones ringing, beeping or vibrating immediately start your mind thinking 'who is it; wonder why they're calling etc', and they do tend to go off at the most inopportune time. You deserve time to yourself, for your mind to switch off from the busy outside world. Let yourself have this time - as long or short as it may be.
I hope that my story gives you a little more insight into me, the service I provide, and helps you make the decision if I'm the right masseuse for you - there are a lot of service providers out there, after all, so it's important to find one that you feel comfortable with. I'd suggest checking our review sites to find a service provider that will provide a service you'll enjoy. Why a review site over an ad? Simple...because the reviews are written by clients who have taken the time to detail their experience - whether good or bad - so it will give you an idea of what to expect. At least, that's my opinion.
As you can see, I'm quite open and forthright about pretty much everything (just don't ask me my real name or too many personal questions please) and am quite verbose, as many clients will no doubt testify to. I would love to pass these skills (and philosophy) on, but am unsure how I'll go about doing this as yet. In the meantime, I'll continue to update my availability on a weekly basis, and just enjoy offering a high level of relaxation and pleasure to my clients.
With much gratitude,
Zoe xx
"I have had numerous massages over the years, some remedial, some more erot*c. I walked out of this session feeling fan-f$%^ing-tastic. My body had been lulled into this intense and deep relaxation from the previous hot stone massage, the satin slides and final ending was just incredible. At the end of the day, I am there for the feeling of being pleasured body and.....well, body and, on this count, Zoe is one of the best experiences I have had." ~Pauldog